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Standard Must Be Biblical, Not Fantasy

Writer: Belle Chan
Belle Chan
11 minutes ago
1 min read

Having standards is not arrogance, it is wise.


Healthy standards protect you from manipulation, dishonor, abuse and compromise.


But unrealistic perfectionism can also sabotage relationships. Healthy marriages are built by two imperfect people committed to growth under God. No man or woman will be flawless.




Instead, look for:

Faithfulness

Humility

Wisdom

Willingness to grow


“Love covers a multitude of sins.” — Peter 4:8


Standards should reflect reality and godly character—not fantasy perfection. Seek growth—not flawless performance.


 
 
 

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