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Standard Must Be Biblical, Not Fantasy

Having standards is not arrogance, it is wise. Healthy standards protect you from manipulation, dishonor, abuse and compromise. But unrealistic perfectionism can also sabotage relationships. Healthy marriages are built by two imperfect people committed to growth under God. No man or woman will be flawless. Instead, look for: Faithfulness Humility Wisdom Willingness to grow “Love covers a multitude of sins.” — Peter 4:8 Standards should reflect reality and godly character—not

Belle Chan

Sep 231 min read

Emotional Intelligence Requires Spiritual Wisdom

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐢𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬. A beautiful relationship can still become destructive without emotional maturity. “A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back.” — Proverbs 29:11 𝐋𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨: Communicates respectfully Takes accountability Can apologize and grow Manages emotions responsibly Listens with empathy Resolves conflict without manipulation or cruel

Belle Chan

Sep 91 min read

𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐁𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡𝐲 𝐇𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐬

“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.” — Proverbs 14:1 And wise men do too. A healthy relationship is built by two people willing to: * Communicate maturely * Take accountability * Pursue peace * Grow together In the book of Judges 16 —Samson repeatedly pursued relationships based on attraction rather than discernment. Delilah manipulated him for personal gain, eventually betrayed him and caused him to step out of alignment

JCJM Global

Jul 161 min read

𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐈𝐬 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧

“𝐖𝐈𝐒𝐃𝐎𝐌 𝐅𝐑𝐎𝐌 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐕𝐀𝐔𝐋𝐓”: 𝐁𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐖𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐌𝐞𝐧 & 𝐖𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧 𝐌𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈𝐀𝐆𝐄 𝐒𝐄𝐑𝐈𝐄𝐒: 𝐌𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐈𝐬 𝐌𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐧 𝐀𝐭𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 “He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” — Proverbs 18:22 Marriage is not merely about attraction. 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐆𝐨𝐝! The first union between Adam and Eve was initiated by God Himself who said, “It is not good that man should b

JCJM Global

May 261 min read

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐐𝐮𝐢𝐞𝐭 𝐊𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐈𝐧𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞

There’s something almost too simple about Genesis 26:12. Isaac sowed. Then he reaped. A hundredfold. In the same year. No dramatic scene. No long build-up. Just that. But when you sit with it a little longer, it feels different. Because this wasn’t an easy season for Isaac. The land he was in—Gerar—wasn’t exactly “secure.” There was tension, uncertainty, even quiet opposition. Not the kind of place where you’d confidently plant something and expect it to grow. Yet… he sowed a

JCJM Global

Mar 312 min read

Increase

𝐈𝐧𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐢𝐬 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠—𝐛𝐮𝐭 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐢𝐭 𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐰 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐫 𝐩𝐮𝐥𝐥 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲? This is the season to stay on course, even when the wind and waves rise. Don’t stop at the fifth or sixth time. 𝐆𝐨𝐝 𝐢𝐬 𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬. 🎧 Watch until the end. 💬 Comment “𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐘 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒𝐄” if you’re choosing faith. . . . . . . #StayTheCourse #JCJMGlobal #GPWM #SpiritualGrowth #TrustGod #KeepGoing

Belle Chan

Feb 81 min read

Jesus will come to your well

By Barbara Mitchell Jesus has our best interests at heart. He knows what we need before we call. The Bible says before we call, He provides the answer. He is a God of Integrity. We can trust Him. What are you thirsting for today? Matt 6:33 implore us to seek ye first the Kingdom of God, and everything else will be added to you. As she encountered Jesus, and as she posed questions of cultural and religious theology, she realised that this man is not of the Natural but of the S

Belle Chan

Jan 162 min read

Prepare the way 21-day Daniel fast

Week 1 recap Jesus once told a story in Matthew 25:10-13 about ten virgins waiting for the bridegroom. Five were wise, and five were foolish. They all looked ready on the outside. They all had lamps. They were all waiting. But only five had oil. And the oil wasn’t about religious activity. It wasn’t about appearances. It was abthe out preparation of the heart. It speaks of intimacy. Of dependence. Of being filled — again and again — with the Holy Spirit. Because you can’t bor

JCJM Global

Jan 141 min read