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๐Œ๐š๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐š๐ ๐ž ๐‘๐ž๐ช๐ฎ๐ข๐ซ๐ž๐ฌ ๐‹๐ž๐š๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐š๐ง๐ ๐’๐ญ๐ž๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ ๐จ๐Ÿ ๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง๐š๐ฅ ๐†๐ซ๐จ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ก

Writer: Belle Chan
Belle Chan
Sep 2
1 min read

๐‹๐ž๐š๐๐ž๐ซ๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ: โ€œHusbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her.โ€ โ€” Epistle to the Ephesians 5:25


Men are not called merely to โ€œhave a wife.โ€


They are called to lead with sacrifice, maturity, consistency and love


๐’๐ญ๐ž๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ: Become the Man/Woman You Are Seeking



A healthy marriage is not built only on finding the right person. It is also built on becoming the right person.


๐…๐จ๐ซ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง: before looking for an Eph 5:25 man, become a woman who is respectful and able to submit to the authority of a godly man.


๐…๐จ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ž๐ง: Before looking for a Proverbs 31 woman, become a man of integrity yourself.


โ€œHe who walks with integrity walks securelyโ€ฆโ€ โ€” Proverbs 10:9


Donโ€™t Marry Potential Alone


Many people enter relationships hoping:


โ€œTheyโ€™ll change later.โ€


โ€œMarriage will fix this.โ€


โ€œLove will heal everything.โ€


๐ƒ๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ข๐ ๐ง๐จ๐ซ๐ž ๐ซ๐ž๐ฉ๐ž๐š๐ญ๐ž๐ ๐ซ๐ž๐ ๐Ÿ๐ฅ๐š๐ ๐ฌ because of chemistry or emotional attachment. Date reality, not imagination. Wisdom evaluates fruit and patterns, not promises and fantasy.


โ€œ๐˜๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ค๐ง๐จ๐ฐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฆ ๐›๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ข๐ซ ๐Ÿ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ข๐ญ๐ฌ.โ€ ๐Œ๐š๐ญ๐ญ๐ก๐ž๐ฐ ๐Ÿ•:๐Ÿ๐Ÿ”

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