“The wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands the foolish one tears hers down.” — Proverbs 14:1 And wise men do too. A healthy relationship is built by two people willing to: * Communicate maturely * Take accountability * Pursue peace * Grow together In the book of Judges 16 —Samson repeatedly pursued relationships based on attraction rather than discernment. Delilah manipulated him for personal gain, eventually betrayed him and caused him to step out of alignment